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As a former crashout queen, I would have been destroyed if the people in my life treated me the way some people are treating Huda. It should be normal to hold people accountable while giving them grace at the same time.
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Anonymous 37w

yeah bc when she tries apologize they don’t wanna hear it. when she doesn’t apologize then they’re mad. (Not a Huda fan ik she’s wrong but she deserved to be eventually forgiven)

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Anonymous 37w

Anddddd this is the issue. Y’all go through y’all whole life wanting grace when y’all act out, while giving the ppl y’all crash out on none to begin with. You can’t learn from bad behavior until you see how the way you move and the things you say affect others, and the long lasting consequences that come from it

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Anonymous 37w

Oh I totally misunderstood I thought you meant you would have been destroyed if people had enabled you the way they enable huda 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 37w

I genuinely hope people give you grace and room to grow if you crash out or make mistakes even though you don’t have the humility to offer that to others

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

I mean it’s pretty easy not to act like that I fear. And actions have consequences! If my actions directly harm someone to the point that they don’t want to be my friend then I shouldn’t be “expected grace and room to grow” from them. Especially when those actions are repeated in a cyclical manner and affect multiple different people.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

Also at the end of the day no one owes you grace

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

Crashing out when the reason behind your crash out isn’t valid and is degrading and bully like doesn’t deserve grace. Fortunately, I don’t crash out unless it’s 100% necessary, when I’m done incredibly wrong. Huda crashes out when she doesn’t get her way, and if you resonate with that then that speaks volume

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 37w

I mean I hope you’re right about never having ever crashed out unless you were 100% in the right. I feel like that viewpoint kinda just leads to people being in denial of their own mistakes because they would condemn someone else for making that kind of mistake. So I hope you are right

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 37w

Cause if you hate someone else that much for crashing out without reason, that means you would hate yourself for the same thing, which means you won’t question yourself or acknowledge mistakes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

No a viewpoint that leads to denial of the severity of one’s own mistakes is demanding grace from your victims

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

Fortunately, I was raised by people who taught me right from wrong, so I don’t go around being an a-hole to ppl just ppl my feelings got hurt, but that’s just me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 37w

I don’t understand what you mean by that #3, can you explain? Genuinely would like to understand

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