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LGBTQIA+ 5w
I’m so freaking tired of “straight”/closeted men leading me on. I’ve been told by four different men at various times in the last couple of years something like “I’m not gay but your the only guy I’d be interested in doing something with” that’s not okay
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Anonymous 5w

they’re not leading you on they’re telling you directly that they are not interested, just because they’re probably a lil closeted doesn’t mean you should put effort into coaxing them out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I'm not putting any effort into "coaxing" them out. They are making these statements freely. As for "not being interested" 2 of those 4 times their statement was unprompted and completely out of nowhere. If you are straight you shouldn’t be going around telling other men that "oh yeah I'm not gay but lowkey I'd have sex with you if i was"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah I don’t think they realize how fucked that is. Like, they should imagine if a lesbian said that to them 💔

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