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I have a question for my lesbian friends. Would you still allow someone to rep the lesbian flag and call themselves a lesbian even though they are dating a cis male. This is deadass what one of my friends is doing
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Anonymous 10w

I’m a very inclusive and “do what you want with your labels” type of queer but that’s objectively not lesbian behavior. It kinda diminishes the identity and maybe it’s a reach, but I feel like it feeds into the cis straight man idea that lesbians can be “turned straight”

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Anonymous 10w

This is dangerous to lesbians so no lol, it gives cis men the impression we can be changed. Your friend is genuinely dangerous to us 😭

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Anonymous 10w

She literally went from I hate men and I’ll never date one, to dating one. It’s soo weird

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Anonymous 10w

Ooo that’s definitely a no lol

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Anonymous 10w

your friend is cringe

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Anonymous 10w

idk i've seen people with "exceptions" or a lot of the time in similar scenarios the "guy" will turn out to actually be a trans woman, but idk. does she say she likes guys now?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Agreed very much

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