LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I’ve been struggling with my identity… I’ve had a wonderful girlfriend for almost two years but I feel like our relationship has fizzled out for me. It’s not serving me and I don’t feel the same I used to. I feel like a terrible person. (1)

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I’ve been struggling with my identity… I’ve had a wonderful girlfriend for almost two years but I feel like our relationship has fizzled out for me. It’s not serving me and I don’t feel the same I used to. I feel like a terrible person. (1)

Anonymous 1w

Wdym by not serving?

Anonymous 1w

And this is my first sapphic relationship and it feels like if it ends maybe I’m not bi. I have no idea what to think or feel and at this point I need to just get it into the world (2)

Anonymous

#1 1w

Like, we’re not in the same place. I have future aspirations and goals and she’s constantly asking me not to pursue them because it means not spending more time with her. And I love her dearly but I wanna be the person I’m meant to be

Anonymous

OP 1w

Or more accurately like… I sacrifice myself more to make it work than she does— which feels terrible to say but it’s true

Anonymous

OP 1w

Oh yeah I see what you mean. I think it’s one of those things where you just have to make a choice and neither choice will be easy. You just have to choose what seems more worth it to you. Easier said than done but I wouldn’t worry about if you’re bi or not for an imaginary audience if you break up. If you date another girl then you do, if you don’t then you don’t. I’d focus on what brings your life meaning