
Seconding this, some gay men have misogyny they need to unpack and should be called on it if they make comments showing it. Nobody should weaponize or hide behind their identity as an excuse to not improve/learn, that’s bad for anyone to do. As part of that people also need to stop claiming that someone is misogynistic if they’re calling a woman out on actually problematic behavior. TL;DR: hold people accountable and don’t weaponize your identity to avoid accountability