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LGBTQIA+ 3w
why do cishet ppl love taking queer terminology, using it WRONG, and then insisting that their definition is correct 🫩
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Anonymous 3w

Ngl yall queer people do this to black terminology and speech mannerisms often and claim it as “queer talk”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i’m talking about terms such as top/bottom, twink/bear, etc… things with definitions based in queerness that just do not apply to cishet people and relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ik, i wasnt being accusatory to you just mentioning that this is a common problem in our community as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i see i see, and i agree with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Exactly what I came to comment so much of queer lingo is actually taken from the Black community

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah, it gets really confusing especially when they start saying they’re a switch in reference to top or bottom. Switch is a BDSM term so like you could be top switch bottom switch ect. And then when I explained that to them, they told me I was wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I was talking to a guy about flip fucking was one time and then i had to explain what that was and then I was talking to this girl im friends with at work to be like i can’t believe he didn’t know what flip fucking is and then I had to explain it to her too

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