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LGBTQIA+ 19w
Hey for the anti trans men lesbian crowd. I look like a man I act like a man I have a male name and dress in men’s clothes and use he/him pronouns exclusively. I have top and bottom surgery. But I’m not 100% binary. Can I be a lesbian.
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Anonymous 19w

why are you posting obvious discourse bait?

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Anonymous 19w

you're allowed to do whatever the fuck you want as long as you decide not to care what random people on the internet say

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Anonymous 19w

trans masc ≠ trans man. if u don’t identify as a man u can be a lesbain. trans masc lesbians are valid and exist

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Anonymous 19w

if you want to identify as a man you cannot be a lesbian. its just doesnt work like that. but if you are like any other gender besides a cis man (duh) or trans man, then being a lesbian makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

But what if my gender is fluid between trans masc and trans man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

depends on what u identify as. if u purely identify as a man then no ur just straight. but if ur gender is fluid great the lesbian community is for u. the community is non men loving non men so gender queer/fluid people are included in that definition

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

I think I’m like Demi boy? Part nonbinary part man?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

It’s a question that I’d like serious answers to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

ok. who’s going to stop you the gender police?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

safe to say u CAN be a lesbian if u choose to identify as so and if anyone has a problem with it take it up w the worker

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Trans men lesbians exist, too bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

Trans men lesbians exist, too bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

thats just straight, its okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

Not always, no. Get over it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19w

nah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

Too bad. 😊

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