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I’m male presenting but i want to be more feminine and want to download dating apps. Obviously HER is especially for women but since im non-binary do you think its ok to download it even though im male presenting?
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Anonymous 4d

I have been liked by more cis men than women on HER. In my experience HER is primarily couples looking for a third typically cis man and cis woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Yeah its rough, i had it when i was like 18/19 because it was marketed as a dating app predominantly for queer women, but to my surprise it was a lot of grown (35+) cis men and unicorn hunters, ive even had to report a profile because bro’s first pics were dick pics at multiple angles, genuinely id only recommend that to someone if they want to be borderline sexually harassed, it was not worth the cool people id see once in a while since they usually were also on another platform also 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

HER didn’t do anything about the creep either

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I 100% agree, I don’t use the app at all anymore bc of the amount of cis men and the people who are worth it are also on other apps

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