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I’m going to repost this hear and add the context that I’m friends with both her and her girlfriend and I’m bi and her parents would make her basically pretend to be straight to let her move back in and they also live in another state and the state is red
How to decide whether or not to offer to let my friend stay with me for two months? I love living alone but I don’t want her to have to be staying with her homophobic parents if she would be more comfortable staying with me instead
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Anonymous 9w

*here - and also I’d check in with her girlfriend before offering out of respect because I’ve known her girlfriend longer than I’ve known her and I want to make sure she’s comfortable with it but I’m pretty sure she would be because she doesn’t want her to live far away with her homophobic family

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Anonymous 9w

well i mean maybe have an open and nonjudgemental conversation abt roommate expectations, no invitations yet, to find out if it would work or not? Bc she deserves better than her parents but also it would suck if you invite her and it turns out ur incompatible and it totally ruins the friendship.

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