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Genuine question for fems from a baby gay fem… how do you ✂️ or give head with protection? Like im not tryna catch an STI 🙏 pls help a girl out
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Anonymous 4w

switch femme here, dental dams and gloves are great! if you cant find a dental dam you can cut a condom down the middle to make a dam. if you have NOTHING available you can use fingers only (make sure you have no cuts or hang nails) orrrr to be extra safe you and your partner can both get tested before doing the deed (my current gf and i stayed celibate until we could both provide a clean STD panel to eachother)

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Anonymous 4w

Dental dams! They have wearable dental dams (shaped like underwear) I imagine you could use for scissoring.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Tysm!! I’ll see if I can find some somewhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

just know most HPV cannot be diagnosed via urine or blood sample and require a papsmear/cervical biopsy!!! please get regular papsmears annually after age of 21!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Shoot I didn’t know that, ty for sharing!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

of course! my best friend (also a lesbian) contracted HPV from her ex gf which led her to having a precancerous cervical swab at the age of 21! sapphic relationships are not immune to these diseases so its important to get vaccinated, tested and use protection :)

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