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LGBTQIA+ 19h
How do I explain that im asexual but will have (consensual) sex for my romantic partner’s enjoyment even tho i lowk find it so boring
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Anonymous 17h

this is how I am too! I just break it down as much as possible so my usual explanation goes something like - because I'm asexual I don't experience any sexual attraction to people and that because of that I'm not very inclined to touch others sexually. but sex still feels good to me, it just seems without sexual attraction i have a much more muted experience with sex than the average person.

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Anonymous 17h

I think you just did lol. However, just know that there will probably be a lot of people who prefer not to have a partner feels like sex is boring

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

like I'd rather over explain then leave someone feeling blindsided yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

It ain’t boring for dont worry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

for him*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

They were talking about YOU not enjoying it. Your partner enjoying it with you and the bonding and intimacy is a huge part of the appeal of sex. If your partner isn’t into it it’s not fun and just be ready for that to be a deal breaker for some people bc they want a partner who enjoys sex with them.

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