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LGBTQIA+ 4w
OK, I need guy advice. I’m seeing this guy, he is literally allergic to everything. Is that a dealbreaker? I’m not like one of those petty bitches who’s like “allergic to shellfish? Bye bitch”, but he’s allergic to all animals, most fruits, and flowers
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Anonymous 4w

if it’s a dealbreaker for you, then cut it off now instead of stringing him along

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Anonymous 3w

I had an ex that was allergic to everything. It takes a lot of work cleaning things off if you have a pet. I could not say the allergy is the dealbreaker in itself, but if it is someone that is not willing to work with you/compromise regarding their allergy, that could be a dealbreaker. Maybe talk to them about what pets in general (especially if you want one/have one).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

But like that’s not a bitchy reason to stop talking to someone right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Pets are huge, I live on a farm and I hunt. Like I asked him if he’s interested in that and he gave me this face at dinner like I insulted him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I think if he is allergic to a lot of things that are integral to the things that you like, it’s not you being petty, but it’s That that you truly are just not compatible

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I don't think so, especially if animas are an important part of your life it's not a personal slight against him your ways of life just aren't compatible

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it definitely is (I mean, how would you feel about being rejected due to your own hardships being viewed as like, “not worth the trouble”?), but far less harmful to him in the long run than if you tried to follow through on dating him when you already know how reluctant you would be to accommodate his survival needs

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