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LGBTQIA+ 5w
Chat, how do I know who I like? I’ve always struggled with knowing whether I like someone as a friend or if I have a romantic crush. What if I’m ace? Because once I’m done with the excitement of a relationship, I don’t want kisses or anything else…
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Anonymous 5w

if you aren't thinking about smooching them a little, it's probably not romantic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

But is that normal to happen in every relationship I’ve had? Am I just falling out of love or is there something different or wrong with me? I just want to get the spark back.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

do you actually want to kiss them at the start or do you do it because you associate that with the start of a relationship and the other person wants to kiss you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

That is what I’m not sure of… I think I do— when I remember the begining I remember loving being romantic and kissing. This is also my first sapphic relationship and it’s making me anxious that maybe I was wrong. Idk. I’m over complicating everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

worth remembering that straight cis people don't really have to think about this stuff, so if you're wondering/questioning, you're probably not wrong. just a matter of figuring out what labels/IDs make you feel better and help you understand yourself

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