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LGBTQIA+ 1d
Biphobic acephobic and arophobic all in one post. Being asexual but not aromantic or aromantic but not asexual is real, and does not make your sexuality “fake”
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Anonymous 1d

I don’t think that’s what they’re really talking about. They’re talking about the girls who are like “I love women teehee but I’d never marry/have sex with one” but they would with guys

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Anonymous 1d

She blocked me 💀

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Anonymous 1d

Me when I look everywhere but the point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

A biromantic heterosexual girl or a bi girl with a heavy preference for men? And why do you point out girls specifically?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Nobody talking about asexuals or aromatics mind you. I’m talking about people who do not have attraction, romantic or sexual, to their gender for example. But they insisted on calling themselves bisexual knowing they just have eyes and don’t think their gender is repulsive so it counts as something when it is not tangible and will never be actualized.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

do you take issue with people who say they’re effectively straight/gay but are in reality bi with a heavy preference?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

/genq

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Great! That’s not what the split attraction model is in slightest.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

The split attraction model is about people who fall on the asexual and aromantic spectrums

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

No guy is like “oh I have such a man crush but I’d never have sex with or marry a guy”. It’s only girls who say that for idk what reason but as a lesbian I hear that shit all the time from straight girls🤦🏻‍♀️🫥

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I’m a bisexual heteromantic guy. I would never marry another guy, but I experience sexual attraction to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Plus a completely straight girl has nothing to do with the split attraction model. That’s just a straight girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Okay then you’re not a problem?? Idk what you’re trying to argue. The person was just commenting on an issue that uses the split attraction model in a toxic way to claim they’re part of the community

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

You said you’d never heard a guy say that. That person said that they’re tired of the split attraction model and these “fake bisexuals”. They did not say anything about a few people appropriating it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

You literally said you experience sexual attraction to men, my example doesn’t apply to you. And yes the fake bisexuals he’s referring to are the ones appropriating it. No one’s going after bisexuals who have the attraction but don’t act on it as often. The aroace spectrum is a spectrum for a reason, no one is denying that some experience more romantic/sexual attraction than others. We’re talking about those (girls in particular) who have NO sexual/romantic attraction to the same sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

But say shit like “I have such a girl/boy crush but would never *input any sort of romantic or sexual content*

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