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LGBTQIA+ 1w
Is it possible to be asexual or something like that but also be a freak? Like sex seems cool and I get horny and shit but also I think if I had it it would be the worst day of my life. Not because I’m scared, just sex genuinely disgusts me irl.
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Anonymous 1w

being asexual is about whether or not you feel sexual attraction. libido, willingness to have sex, etc are different. you can be any sexual orientation and “be freaky”, or any sexual orientation and be sex-repulsed.

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Anonymous 1w

Alternatively, is it possible to be ok with lesbian sex but not hetero sex and still be pan?

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t think it means you are asexual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it might be possible, but i think it’s unlikely and maybe a sign

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Can you define sexual attraction? I thought that and libido were basically the same- whats the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Could be panromantic homosexual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Sexual attraction involves experiencing a desire to have sex with a specific or hypothetical person, and does not exist within a vacuum. Libido is a feeling or drive to engage in sexual activities.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

This is me fr. But I think it’s because of the aspect that having sex with a man comes with more risks bc of pregnancy and stuff…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

This! Plenty of asexual people get horny or have sex or whatever, they just don’t look at people and think “I’d be interested in sex with that person”. That’s why there’s labels like sex repulsed, for if the idea of sex makes you feel gross.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Panromantic sure. Not pansexual tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Got it. Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

True… also no offense men but how do I know if it’s clean

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

What do you think it means then?

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