LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | can we stop with the whole “cis/hetero people never experience x, only y identity does” thing? it ignores so much intersectionality and nuance. being trans is ONE way people come to examine gender. race, culture, misogyny, etc. are all ways as well

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LGBTQIA+ 20h

can we stop with the whole “cis/hetero people never experience x, only y identity does” thing? it ignores so much intersectionality and nuance. being trans is ONE way people come to examine gender. race, culture, misogyny, etc. are all ways as well

LGBTQIA+ 1d

It’s not a hot take to say trans people understand the ins and outs and complexities of gender more than cisgender people do, it’s the truth. Cisgender people don’t have the first fucking clue about gender because they never question it.

Anonymous 20h

Right? Like im thinking about all the butches who id as cis that i know. Many of them are on t... many of them have questioned their gender but have come to the conclusion that woman is what is right for them. I think its so weird to strip cis ppl of their cisness if they are gnc

Anonymous 19h

Thank you. They’re acting like cis women don’t talk about what it means to be a woman, our experiences as women, our grievances with the expectations put on us as women literally all the fucking time?? Like we’re ALWAYS talking about it and examining it. Examining gender is a HUGE part of feminism. I fucking hate takes like these.

Anonymous 2h

The amount of upvotes that post has really goes to show how many people have an 'us vs them' mentality in here

Anonymous

#1 20h

right!! i think we all forget that just like queerness, there’s no general cis experience. while there are absolutely some cis people who will go through life never questioning their gender, most aren’t afforded that luxury. gnc cis people exist, racist gender stereotypes exist, cultural gender roles exist, so on and so fourth. we all examine and question it to a certain degree really

Anonymous

#2 19h

Just because we identify with the gender we were assigned at birth does not mean we’ve never examined it, never thought about it, never questioned it. Fuck anyone who thinks like this. Seriously.

Anonymous

#2 2h

“not all cis”

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Anonymous

#3 2h

don’t be like that dawg, this entire discussion is nowhere near comparable to not all men arguments. the op made an absolute statement that’s wrong and erases the struggles of so many people. understanding and questioning the complexities of gender really has nothing to do with being cis or trans, it’s a human experience shared by most people