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LGBTQIA+ 17w
Dating as a trans man is impossible because I’m constantly running into “bisexual” dudes who end up just being straight guys who think they can “fix” me or wait til my “phase” runs out. He keeps calling me his future baby mama/future wife and I’m tired
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Anonymous 17w

fkn break up omg

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Anonymous 17w
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Anonymous 17w

I’m sorry, my best friend is a trans man and he deals with the same thing. He now tries to go for gay men that are out or other trans people and he has received less of the weird fetishizing treatment

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Anonymous 17w

I can relate, this has been most of my experience dating as an AFAB nonbinary person

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Anonymous 17w

I had one guy who hardly knew me tell me that I’d make a good MILF. Major ew. SAVE YOURSELF.

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Anonymous 17w

booooo! you deserve better 🗣️

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Anonymous 17w

this is why t4t is the best

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Anonymous 17w

cis men <<<

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Anonymous 17w

beat his ass

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Anonymous 17w

Getting war flashbacks over here

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Anonymous 17w

Date an asexual with a history of TBIs. I once forgot my best friend was trans and while ranting about medical misogyny told them “you’re lucky you don’t understand” 🫠🫠🫠🫠

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Anonymous 17w

chat am i cooked? (i'm trans, gay, AND ace)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

We were never together just kinda talking but he made it very clear what his intentions are.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

thank god OP i see people say stuff like this and stay together and im just like…. pls love yourselves more

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 17w

Yessssss

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 17w

nahh youll find someone

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Anonymous replying to -> mediocrates 17w

thank you mediocrates 🙏❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 17w

i do what i can, which is often mediocre (hence the name) 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 17w

i am too, i promise there’s ppl out there, it just takes time

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16w

Yeah that’s why I’m really only open to dating other nonbinary/genderqueer people

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