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Istg if I see one more person say it’s heteronormative to be disgusted by someone treating you like a sex object I’m just blow up my head. And if I said it was kinda homophobic to say that then what???
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Anonymous 21h

Fr like heteronormativity is a real thing and it is harmful but not everything we experience is heteronormative. Like when I was in pre K i really wanted to be friends with this one girl but everyone told me I had a crush on her so i thought I did. That is heteronormative. You not wanting to be sexualized and fetishized. That’s just having self respect and worth.

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Anonymous 18h

That’s actually crazy what the hell. It’s actively heteronormative to fetishize and to treat another like a sex object; sexualizing “non-normativity” (non-manhood) is an essential component of patriarchal structures

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I hope you find people that respect your personhood and I hope people stfu acting like personhood is only subject to your sexual orientation.

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