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LGBTQIA+ 1d
im trans masc nonbinary and for a while i was in a community that really validated that. i’m not anymore and i feel like im at a breaking point with being a “woman” again in everyone’s eyes. i don’t really feel like that’ll ever change though
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Anonymous 1d

like i don’t want to get on T or bind heavily every day. i just wish people would accept who i am without having to change myself. i’m getting so exhausted. even my friends that i have from school don’t really acknowledge it as much anymore

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Anonymous 1d

what is trans masc nonbinary? like why aren't you just nonbinary and dress I guess androgynous? I'm genuinely confused but maybe my understanding of the words is lacking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and maybe part of why they don’t is because i’ve had to change myself since moving home. idk. i don’t feel like i’ve changed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m sorry you’re experiencing that. There are communities that will validate you without “steps” and I really hope you find one 🫂 don’t doubt yourself bc of others 💜

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah i went to a college with like 100 people and at least 80 of them were queer in someway and that was a huge liberating experience. i graduated tho and am now working to be a librarian and my whole job is with the general public who either don’t know or don’t care about my pronouns or identity though its on my badge. c’est la vie je suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i don’t really understand your question either. are you confused what trans masc nonbinary is as a term/concept or why a nonbinary person isn’t strictly androgynous?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

if it’s the former, i identify that way because i prefer having masculine features and style but i identify as nonbinary and use they/them pronouns. i’m afab but binding is a massive pain for me because i have,,, big tits. in all other ways than my chest and my lack of HRT i present masc but because of the aforementioned tits everyone just treats me like a woman and it’s frustrating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah, this is what I was asking. that makes more sense

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