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LGBTQIA+ 1w
I’m a bi guy, but I feel like my “gay” side is way more perverted and hypersexual than my “straight” side. My “straight” side just wants a nice girl to date and marry. My “gay” side wants to get ran through and fantasizes about being gangbanged
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Anonymous 1w

Maybe you should unpack why you view sex/relationships differently based on who you are currently sleeping with. If you only want to use men as sexual objects maybe unpack why you don’t want to date a man

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Anonymous 6d

so you’re bisexual, but heteroromamtic. sexual orientation and romantic orientation are two different things, that’s probably what you’re experiencing

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Anonymous 6d

I’m bi with different forms of attraction too, sorry people are hating. I get how it is

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Anonymous 6d

Ppl hating this post clearly don’t understand this person is just trying to make sense of their own personal experience. He’s not saying this is common, he’s just expressing himself and seeking community. And y’all are not giving rn.

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Anonymous 6d

I don’t get why you’re being hated on, you’re genuinely confused on why you feel this way and that sucks. But have you explored being romantic with men without the sex? If you don’t think that’s for you, you might be bisexual and heteroromantic and that’s okay too.

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Anonymous 6d

This is why biphobia exists.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

We do not claim him!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

I think this kind of mentality is dangerous bc this man is still bisexual whether you claim him or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

My point was more about not validating biphobia because of how a few people behave, which is how the original comment could have been interpreted.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

This is like saying “this is why homophobia exists” when a gay adult is exposed for grooming kids or something, bi/homophobia exist because we’re different, not because of the actions of a few

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6d

Yes because we should want to be in community with people who view us this way. You should want to hang around the person who views his attraction to you as “perverted”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

you clearly don’t get what he’s going through, so don’t demonize him for trying to understand himself. He probably doesn’t want to feel this way but can’t help it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6d

I can never imagine only finding someone attractive just for sex. The way he described his attraction is gross and we should be able to acknowledge how gross what he said is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

he is very clearly struggling with how he feels, do you think he wants to feel that way? he could also be hypersexual, none of which is his fault. I refuse to demonize him because of this. Maybe you guys are the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5d

I’m hypersexual, being hypersexual is not an excuse to talk about others in this way. I’m only demonizing it bc it is bad behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

it’s not a bad thing to feel this way when you clearly feel remorse. If he was celebrating this feeling, it’d be bad, but he feels remorse. I’m not going to argue this anymore because you’re a shitty person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Oh my god he’s describing HIMSELF, no one else!! And who fucking cares if he only wants sex, as long as he is properly disclosing to his partners it’s fine?? He’s using words like “me” and “my” not “all gay people” “all straight people.” God forbid someone wants to get freaky, you don’t have to participate if you don’t want. And this is coming from asexual person 💀 are you gonna go and villainize every aromantic person now too? Get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 5d

If you think that this is an acceptable way to talk about someone then that’s okay, I personally find this type of description even if he is describing his own attraction to be incredibly homophobic and that should be addressed especially bc I’m not the only person who found this post to be incredibly homophobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

I just think everyone is reading his post wrong and they need to think about other possibilities. This is his experience, he’s not being rude or demeaning towards other people, other than himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Just because you can’t imagine it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen for lots of people. Straight people, gay people, lots of people find others sexually attractive without feeling romantic attraction

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