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LGBTQIA+ 1d
my best friend of 6 years who stopped talking to me for a while bc he had a crazy abusive girlfriend(like fr not exaggerating) started dating her again and isn’t talking to me anymore again. i feel so helpless and i don’t know what to do. i miss him
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Anonymous 1d

the “crazy gf” trope is very real and harmful but she was actually so bad to him. i know there’s nothing i can do at this point because we’re long distance friends and he moved so there’s no one i know around him. i’m just so worried for him, we were dating for a while and then distance just didn’t work. i love him eternally still though. idk

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Anonymous 1d

You can be there for em when when it hurts and offer support all you can but they need to realize what you already see and until then the only thing you can do is wait and be there for them when they do

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Anonymous 1d

it’s hard to hear but that’s not your friend, if he can so easily let go of a friendship that’s gone on that long then thats not someone to try holding on to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah and i do know that. it’s just hard, which im sure you also know. the last time we talked on the phone they told me that our conversations always felt like a breath of fresh air. it just sucks so bad knowing that she if hurting him and there’s literally nothing i can do. c’est la vie i guess though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah I understand that but best thing you can do is focus on yourself and keep your side open when they need it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah and again i do know that. i just miss him a lot rn. we met during covid and he saw me during the worst part of my life and still loved me for it. i’ll always ‘leave the porch light on’, and im not waiting for him or anything, i just have so much i want to update him on and i can’t. i’m not looking for solutions, more so just venting

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