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Because I (a gay man) don’t want to invade Lesbian Sex Advice, want to ask my question here. What is the dl scene like for lesbians? In society, we always talk about dl men, but I’m curious what’s the situation with dl lesbians
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Anonymous 2w

there’s just not a scene in the same way. a lot of what you’d call “dl lesbians” are just girls kissing their friends every time they’re drunk and then being in denial pretty girls by renee rapp style

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Anonymous 2w

I don't think it's really labeled like that, there's mainly "comphet"

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Anonymous 1w

A lot of dl women like to say things like I only like kissing women when drunk. Like you know the girl who always has a new man but then gets drunk and makes out with her friends and the boyfriend doesn’t see it as cheating bc he finds it hot. This has been my personal experience with dl women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Isn’t comphet seen in both gay men and lesbians?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yea, but I feel like that's the main labeling that goes on for gay women who are DL

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

like there are closeted lesbians and them hiding your relationship is a whole thing but the closest i think it gets to dl men is that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i feel like i’d call comphet a different phenomenon + experienced to some degree by all lesbians and not just the ones who are closeted or “dl”

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