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LGBTQIA+ 45w
why is so much lesbian erotica (visual, stories, etc) catered to the male gaze? none of it feels relatable
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Anonymous 45w

Much like how most gay novels catered to the female gaze Probably fetishizing

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Anonymous 45w

I feel like most of it was made by men for men. Or it was made by people who still center the male gaze in terms of what they find attractive

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