Anonymous #1 5w

What is confusing

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Anonymous #2 5w

Lesbian. I dont fw the label nonbinary nothing against them its just not me. Im also intersex but thats not super related to it

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Anonymous OP 5w

lesbian isn’t a gender though?

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Anonymous #2 5w

Are you the crown highness of lesbians and their gender identities? This is the shit im talking about lmao

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Anonymous OP 5w

#2 is lowkey right, lesbian is more of a sexuality term than a gender term. Not defending the “you cant not be nonbinary” part though

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Anonymous OP 5w

no. i’m pointing out where you’re using a sexuality as a gender term. that’s the equivalent of me using gay to describe my gender, it doesn’t really make any sense

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Anonymous #2 5w

It can be who gaf if they want to use it like that. Lesbians have been using butch and femme as gender identity terms for decades this really isn't all that different

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Anonymous #4 5w

a sexuality is not a gender. this person doesn’t identify as nonbinary; that’s why i was asking what they identify as since they’re not identifying themselves in a binary (male or female) way. butch and femme are gender identity terms but lesbian is a sexuality. would you go around touting your gender as bisexual and expect people to understand?

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Anonymous #2 5w

I mean sure if i felt like my sexuality were strongly connected enough to my gender identity yeah i would do that. My gender and sexuality are man-who's-attracted-to-men and the two feel inseparable to me so if i considered myself gay I'd probably use it as a gender term too. I wouldn't necessarily expect people to understand but i would expect them to respect it because that's basic human decency. Which is all op is asking for

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Anonymous #4 5w

I know like every lesbian i know understands what i mean.. like if you look at me the only thing you can derive from me genderwise is lesbian

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Anonymous #2 5w

Are you a lesbian

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Anonymous OP 5w

Cuz again ifnot who tf are to tell other people what they can and cannot be. You are precisely the type im talking about in my post

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Anonymous #2 5w

i’m not telling you that you can’t identify how you identify, but i’m pointing out that you can’t complain when someone makes a claim “looks like a duck, acts like a duck, sound like a duck, it’s a duck” with your gender, you can politely correct and move the hell on. people go based on what they see, its how brains work. my sexuality is irrelevant when I am pointing out how people are going to see and question. To immediately berate me for questioning speaks more on your character than mine.

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Anonymous #2 5w

Nah what im saying isnthat ppl are insisting im nonbinary when i am saying im not. Idgaf if ppl think that before confirming it its the fact that youre telling me my identity is incorrect and doesnt make sense like youre correcting me. Im not berating you either like what

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Anonymous #5 5w

Thank u, like literally if my gender doesnt make sense just dont think about it then you dont have to say im unwoke and thats why scientifically you have to misgender me

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Anonymous #5 5w

i know people who use d*ke as a gender so idk why it’s so hard for others to wrap their head around using lesbian as a gender too

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