
The thing is thats the implication here: its all inflammatory statements like “lesbians can like men” instead of a nuanced take like “lesbians can like trans men”. This person is being inflammatory and is ACTING like a cis man trying to turn a lesbian. So no. Lesbians cannot like CIS men and to suggest they can is rape culture bullshit.
“Lesbians can like men” includes trans men inherently. Therefore it is correct to state that lesbians can like men. You are not owed me telling you if I’m trans. Infact ppl would look at you like you’re crazy if you did that irl. You must accept the statement “lesbians can like men” if you support that trans men can be lesbians. You won’t always know if that man is trans and that’s ok