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LGBTQIA+ 1d
My partner really doesn’t like how even with prior consent I refuse to go any farther than kissing them when they’re drunk or high
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Anonymous 1d

if those are your boundaries, they should be respected. that is a very reasonable boundary to have.

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Anonymous 1d

some people are into intox but if they’re pushing you to take part when you’re uncomfy doing so that’s obviously a problem

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Anonymous 1d

That’s pretty much the boundaries me and my partner have too

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Anonymous 20h

ugh but high sex is sooo great lol. i understand the not while drunk but like do u smoke weed? ur not really in that much of an altered state. but if its ur boundaries its ur boundaries #respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

For me it is a VERY altered state with weed, even more than alcohol. I’m often unable to say no for myself, which is why my partner and I have that boundary.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

ur so valid queen i was highkey just rlly curious lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

I smoke weed yea but I just don’t feel comfortable. And my partner is very much altered by it, but even if they were only slightly altered by it, I just don’t feel comfortable with it, it feels gross to think about doing even with prior consent

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