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9 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+.
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Anonymous 1w

No cuz I used to have a friend who dated a dude who SA’ed someone and I didn’t bring it up to the friend because I’m the type to want the ENTIRE story before I say anything because I heard he SA’ed someone from a friend of a friend, yk? So I wasn’t 100% sure it was true. I kinda danced around the topic a little but then my ex friend was basically like, “Yeh, he did some things that pissed me off so bad, but I don’t think it’s worth breaking up with someone over.” And I’m like… WHAT?!

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Anonymous 1w

controversial take I guess but I think it’s bad to blame women for ending up in relationships with men who turn out to be abusive? because that’s victim-blaming?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Stop infantizing women it gets to a point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m not infantilizing anyone, I’m just not here to blame a woman for an abusive man’s behavior 🤨

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Dating someone who you know is abusive is shitty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeh, I agree with #3. I don’t think this post is talking about someone dating someone and then they end up being shitty. I think it’s talking about dating someone you KNOW is shitty but choosing to ignore it and date them anyways. Which, speaking from experience, does happen in the alt community a TON.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

yes this ❗️if you were warned that someone is an abuser and you blame the victim and date that dude anyway you’re a bad person 🫩

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