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LGBTQIA+ 1d
honestly i don’t understand a lot of the terms in the lgbtq+ community other than the basics but like i don’t judge people on it. if it’s not hurting anyone and if makes them feel more secure with their identity, then i don’t care. do what makes you happy
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LGBTQIA+ 2d
would it be a hot take for me to say that trans men can't be lesbians
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Anonymous 1d

life is short, why spend your time judging others? go live your life

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Anonymous 1d

I agree in that I don’t think it hurts anyone, so I don’t really ultimately care. But if your identity is that of a man, I don’t understand how you can be a lesbian. Like I don’t care enough to fight with people online about it, but if I do encounter someone that will genuinely explain it to me wholeheartedly and have an honest conversation then I’d be open to it. As of right now though I don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

wait no bc i totally get that. i don’t understand he/him lesbians either and when i asked about it i dont downvoted and attacked😭 i just learned to say “ok cool” and move on bc everyone in this community it so mean when you try to ask about things and would rather attack you than educate you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I can somewhat understand the logic of the he/him lesbians, like idk if I fully understand but I at least get the direction. I don’t understand the trans men lesbians. Those two terms are incompatible in my head

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And yeah I agree. You can’t ask questions in this chat. I find that to be true for a lot of the internet, so you need to wait until you meet a genuine person because the people on here who spend a lot of time online and are probably of a younger demographic, aren’t reflective of the actual population and don’t respond how a standard person would. In person conversations with real people tend to be better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i’m ngl dude it’s mostly the people online who are against trans men lesbians, not the other way around. i’m very active in my local trans community and have met several trans men and transmasc lesbians. it’s honestly more about whether you interact with the trans community in general.

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