Anonymous #1 5w

She is insisting that’s she’s poly now but she is sleeping or crying all the time. She often used to talk about how she wouldn’t feel valued as a woman in an open relationship since she is trans

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Anonymous OP 5w

Consider: If someone who said they were gay all their life suddenly got into a straight relationship at the insistence of the person they met, and the nature of that relationship leaves them crying every night, would you consider them to “definitely be straight now?”

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Anonymous #1 5w

No I wouldn’t. I just want to respect her and figure out how to bring this up to her without sounding like I’m being polyphobic since I’m monogamous, I’m just so worried about her

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Anonymous #1 5w

She will also often talk about how she’s happy when she’s with the girl but not happy when she’s not with the girlfriend. The girlfriend has also matched me with me on tinder (doesn’t have in her bio or anything that she is poly and I learned she was the girlfriend after I had already matched with her)

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m just like I feel like the girlfriend is using the poly thing as a way to abuse my friend. I know my friend had monogamous (not poly ppl please) in her profile and my friend had a strict rule about not dating poly ppl before this

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