
Rare alternative ending: she’s autistic and has C-PTSD, and people really have shit on her for her entire life to the point where she’s developed severe social avoidance after her “best friends” ganged up on her, told her she was a loser the day before freshman year and to not talk to them when she saw them around because she was “holding them back socially”. (Me) 😀
I think it lowkey depends on how often she brings it up, like if she's still holding onto it and shit talking people from years ago then she's probably the problem, but yeah like some folks are saying some people are just neurodivergent and struggle to know how to function in neurotypical friend groups
Like others in the chat, I fear it’s just that some people (especially girls) in friend groups are just straight up assholes. I may have made some mistakes in the past in friend groups, but I don’t think I’m the entire problem. I’m either neurodivergent as fuck, people are mean as fuck especially the age group of 14-18, or I’m really the asshole but what do I know
There’s a difference btw not having friends bc the world is cruel and not having friends because you are the cruelty in this world and this picture is referring to the latter but thank you for bringing awareness to something completely unrelated but still important…in another conversation
like I cannot stress how evil people are to autistics. 10 students in my class in middle school decided to all falsely accuse me of calling a kid a slur because “she doesn’t talk to anyone, so we assumed it was because she thought she was better than us, and she needed to be taken down a notch”
It took me until college to find an actual friend group, and even then dealt with middle school level bullying. I cried to the band director and almost quit because it got so rough once 😭 like i am an adult, i work at the state law enforcement agency, I earned 2 degrees and graduated early, why am i crying over a literal mean girl spreading lies about me bc I accidentally found out she was cheating on her boyfriend 😭😭😭 how am I THE WRONG one here
Ma’am i was an intern in the behavioral science unit in the state with the best police reform in the country (which plot twist is a red state). Half my job is literally advocating for mental health assistance and training officers on recognizing mental health crises and intervention. Not everyone is a cop. And even if I was, 90% of cops I met were working incredibly hard at reform advocation, so they’re not all bad. Don’t be an ass and wish cruelty on people
Again, wasn’t a cop. But again, thanks for continuing a cycle of abuse and violence by advocating for literal cruelty against an entire industry :) (also policing in America originated with debtors prisons, NOT slave patrol. While that history should not be ignored and continued to reflect on its impact on modern policing, it’s a bit of a false narrative. But please continue telling the people pushing for positive change they’re still evil, that always works wonders and never contributes to harm
“I work at the state law enforcement agency” is what you said. that’s your employer, whether or not you’re a literal police officer doesn’t make much difference—ACAB still applies “a cycle of abuse and violence”? lmfao. the job you work is a choice, and not one you are materially oppressed for having made. the system of prisons & policing is murderously unethical, all I’m doing is saying that since you choose to participate in it, I don’t care if people are cruel to you about that choice
hmmm, who do I trust more to tell the truth about the history of policing in the US: the NAACP, or someone who’s employed by the police and defensive over the moral character of their cop buddies https://naacp.org/find-resources/history-explained/origins-modern-day-policing if you don’t think that history should be erased, why are you calling it a false narrative?
I’m very sorry for your experience and all of those cops deserve to go to hell. There are good people in the police force— and as you say, they often don’t last— but people want to help people and some people see law enforcement as the way to do that. However that doesn’t make your experience any less real or harrowing. THOSE are the cops that we need to get rid of and we need to encourage and help kind hearted cops to stay in law enforcement