LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | even though i could be percieved as one, and theres some experience overlap, i am enby and really don't wanna be seen as butch. like a) not lesbian and b) butch is too close to traditional masculinity in my head. anyone else know what im trying to say?

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LGBTQIA+ 4w

even though i could be percieved as one, and theres some experience overlap, i am enby and really don't wanna be seen as butch. like a) not lesbian and b) butch is too close to traditional masculinity in my head. anyone else know what im trying to say?

Anonymous 4w

yes. i’m a gq butch and do not want to be seen as enby. there are differences but most importantly i don’t appreciate when others attempt to label me or shove me into particular boxes bc it’s “easier” for them to understand. 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous

#1 4w

yeaaa ok this makes a lot of sense!! im glad go know theres someone out there with the same/opposite feeling to me lol. i also dont like boxes. its just one of those things thats a personal vibe/feeling rather than a strict dictionary definition thats easy for others to understand

Anonymous

OP 4w

oh i like my boxes/labels, that’s why i’m so offended when someone tries to put me in a different one!

Anonymous

#1 4w

hehe fair enough!