Anonymous #1 1d

Like yeah it would be weird and invasive to ask someone irl but on an anonymous app where there’s no pressure or anything idk

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Anonymous #1 1d

Thank you, I wasn’t trying to be rude or offensive. I simply had the question to learn more about the enby community and was wondering.

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Anonymous #2 1d

Genuinely thank you for explaining! I think I can speak for a lot when I say please explain your reasoning if you ask again! Given the current political climate, it raises a lot of red flags when people start asking gender assigned at birth questions, imo. If you’re doing research, clarify that in the future - I think a lot more people will be a little less guarded. Sorry I was so bitchy in my post 😭💗

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Anonymous #2 1d

I think there’s an equal distribution of amab enbies and afab enbies BUT that toxic masculinity and societal expectations make it a lot harder for amabs to come out or even to realize that they’re nb. Same thing where bisexuality is more common in afabs than in amabs - not actually more likely, but more socially accepted and therefore more expressed and recognized

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Anonymous #2 1d

There’s also something to be said about the position of power being lost when an amab comes out as nb. The difference in privilege between a cis man and a trans person is much greater than between a cis woman and a trans person. As an afab nb, I didn’t lose much social standing by coming out because I was already seen as lesser

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