LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | So ive recently come to accept that im a gay man. Since i repressed myself a lot i want to experiment with how i present myself and how i act. I dont want to reinforce stereotypes but what if being a stereotypical fem gay guy is what im most comfortable

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

So ive recently come to accept that im a gay man. Since i repressed myself a lot i want to experiment with how i present myself and how i act. I dont want to reinforce stereotypes but what if being a stereotypical fem gay guy is what im most comfortable

Anonymous 1d

Stereotyping is always in the person who’s making up and enforcing stereotypes, not the person who acts like what others perceive as a stereotype if that makes any sense. Express yourself however you want! If someone feels the need to put you in a box because of it that’s a shortcoming of theirs they need to reflect on.

Anonymous 1d

nah i love looking like a 🚬 and not acting like a stereotypical straight man. you aren't weird for acting similar to your community or stereotypes of it.

Anonymous 1d

you’re not reinforcing stereotypes by trying things out

Anonymous 15h

Nothing wrong with it! We could use more fems in the world. Come join us.

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah cause like im kinda fem underneath so i wanna you know sort of seperate from that persona of being a straight guy

Anonymous

#2 1d

even if you were, it doesn’t matter. what’s important is that you grow into who you really are

Anonymous

#2 1d

Yeah thats what I was thinking but i didnt want to like accidentally make us look worse or whatever. Its probably overblown but yeah thats just me

Anonymous

#4 15h

Yay! Deep down ive always been somewhat fem lol