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lightblueice

My whole family is deadnaming me and misgendering me and they’re mad at me because I went away to cry
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Anonymous 5w

I’d start calling them random names and misgendering them along the way. Two can play that game.

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Anonymous 5w

All I’m hearing is that next time you should make sure they see you cry since you can’t hide away to do so. Make them face the consequences of how awful they’re being. I’m so sorry you deserve better 😭

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Anonymous 5w

People get mad when you are upset they crossed boundaries you instated

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Anonymous 5w

I’m so sorry, that’s horrible.

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Anonymous 5w

You cry because they are cruel, and they belittle you because your reaction reminds them they are doing something wrong and not acting like good people. Remember they’re stupid and suck and u are goated and awesome

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Anonymous 5w

You do not deserve that. The best you can do is, if possible, cut contact and put boundaries. If they want you around, they need to respect you. If you can’t, start misgendering them and using the wrong names. Especially hilarious if they hate the name you chose for them. But, and this is very important, only if you are safe. Do NOT do this if they will react violently. But do cry, in their face. Big ugly sobs if you can.

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Anonymous 5w

i’m sorry love. this is so sad.

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Anonymous 5w

i’m sorry :((

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Anonymous 5w

I’m so sorry my love 🫶🏾 your upset is totally valid and they don’t deserve you.

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