
lightblueice
My whole family is deadnaming me and misgendering me and they’re mad at me because I went away to cryYou do not deserve that. The best you can do is, if possible, cut contact and put boundaries. If they want you around, they need to respect you. If you can’t, start misgendering them and using the wrong names. Especially hilarious if they hate the name you chose for them. But, and this is very important, only if you are safe. Do NOT do this if they will react violently. But do cry, in their face. Big ugly sobs if you can.