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Does anyone else have awful OCD-like thoughts (I’m not diagnosed) when speaking to certain people? Like my brain says transphobic things when talking to a trans person even if I don’t believe those things and they don’t align with my core values :( it SUC
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Anonymous 3w

I mean it depends on what cuz like I’ve said I wouldn’t date a trans person just bc that wouldn’t work for me and I’ve been called transphobic for that. Ig the audience matters just as much as what you say

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Anonymous 3w

I have similar OCD thoughts and I'm trans. you're a good person, it's not what you believe. OCD literally gives you thoughts that are against what you believe. i would probably suggest not telling a trans person you have those thoughts about them tho cuz it could make them uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

that was obv not what they are talking about and dw trans people don't want to date you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah I never have and never will. It just upsets me a lot because I don’t feel that way and can’t get it out of my head :( thanks for the response

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