
I've had it happen in real life before, idk how common it is in online spaces but I've definitely experienced it. also I know at the end of the day people can head cannon fictional characters however they want, but I've never witnessed a fandom actually respect an asexual or aromantic characters identity, like they immediately start making porn of them or romantic fanfics. like with gay characters people usually keep them gay in their fanfics and idk it feels very targeted sometimes
I think this says a good bit about how these characters are written. In adult media with explicit asexual characters and representation, they’re often written as highly objectifiable on purpose, as if being an overly sexual character that’s actually asexual and not a potential partner for someone is some gotcha or a replacement for being deep and intentional with their story