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LGBTQIA+ 8w
Being gay and Japanese is honestly not for the weak because it’s constant fetishization and trust issues due to fetishization like I’m genuinely always left wondering if people like me or they like whatever fantasy they’re projecting onto me
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Anonymous 8w

No fr same thing with being black and it’s even worse coming from other gay poc like girl we’re supposed to be in this together

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Anonymous 8w

Literally

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Anonymous 8w

Oh lord that blows I’m so sorry

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Anonymous 8w

Middle eastern and gay here, briefly dated a white boi and he introduced me to his friend group at the club and they were all middle eastern dudes 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Literally it's a whole dam fetish even in the anime community in Japan it a dam fetish to be gay man becusee of the dam hentai and yaoi made it worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Smh i’n sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

wait explain to me like i’m five, why is it weird that his friends were all middle eastern?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Not necessarily weird but off putting from my side. For more context: he dated a middle eastern dude before me, and we live in LA so it’s very ethnically diverse and it’s like he only wanted to surround himself with middle eastern dudes so clearly it’s a fetishization

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

It’s literally turning the LGBTQ into a fucking fetish is literally gay guys themselves will turn the LGBTQ into a fetish.

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