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Being gay and Japanese is honestly not for the weak because it’s constant fetishization and trust issues due to fetishization like I’m genuinely always left wondering if people like me or they like whatever fantasy they’re projecting onto me
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Anonymous 15h

No fr same thing with being black and it’s even worse coming from other gay poc like girl we’re supposed to be in this together

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Anonymous 15h

Literally

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Anonymous 13h

Oh lord that blows I’m so sorry

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Anonymous 14h

Middle eastern and gay here, briefly dated a white boi and he introduced me to his friend group at the club and they were all middle eastern dudes 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Literally it's a whole dam fetish even in the anime community in Japan it a dam fetish to be gay man becusee of the dam hentai and yaoi made it worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Smh i’n sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

even on the enemy groups here on this app, they got people sexualizing the gay community so bad they’re wishing two straight dudes in an anime will fuck no matter what they’re wishing every anime is about two straight dudes fuck and if you open your mouth about it and try to tell them that keep that shit to themselves. They think your homophobic or you just hate gay sex 🤦🏾‍♀️😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4h

wait explain to me like i’m five, why is it weird that his friends were all middle eastern?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4h

Not necessarily weird but off putting from my side. For more context: he dated a middle eastern dude before me, and we live in LA so it’s very ethnically diverse and it’s like he only wanted to surround himself with middle eastern dudes so clearly it’s a fetishization

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