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LGBTQIA+ 3w
I need help. My whole life I have been a cis man and I’m comfortable with being identified as such. But I hate how limited stuff for men is like expectations, clothing, etc… I also often want to be able to shapeshift at a whim. For gags or to feel good
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Anonymous 3w

Only you can decide if you're trans/nonbinary but you don't have to be either to be gender nonconforming. Wear whatever you want from whatever section of the store as long as it makes you happy. It also sounds like it might be worth looking into shapewear or specific workout programs. Just do what you want and don't gaf about what people say

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Anonymous 3w

I just don’t know. I love my name and my identity and the parts I have. But I have times where I wish I could just transform into a woman y’know? Like shapeshift and be that and dress like one and try their clothes on and stuff but I don’t want to lose any of my parts. I like the name Zayne as everything I can put it. Online, gaming, food orders. But I don’t want to change or lose my actual name- UGHHH idk?! I want to have it all! I want to be able to choose what I will and can be and when!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Just even past gender or sex I guess- I just love the idea of that freedom to do and be what I want- But I’m so limited by my actual flesh and I feel I can’t even come close to that. Hell, I can’t even really dress feminine in the way I want because I don’t have a waist and the pants never have room in front! I love wide leg jeans though because they accommodate for that! Idk, I just feel really lost in who I am and want to be. Like I’m not seen as who I want to be seen as

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