LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | Getting frustrated trying to explain to my friend I’m asexual… “isn’t that just…” no this isn’t anything else “pathological” I’m trying to have grace bc I know she isn’t dumb but I’m feeling a little dismissed rn

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

Getting frustrated trying to explain to my friend I’m asexual… “isn’t that just…” no this isn’t anything else “pathological” I’m trying to have grace bc I know she isn’t dumb but I’m feeling a little dismissed rn

Anonymous 1d

I don’t get what people don’t get about asexuality. I’ve heard the argument about evolutionary benefit and reproduction. However, there are evolutionary benefits to asexual individuals, just as there are to being gay.

Anonymous 1d

I don’t get how they think that question is any different from calling any other queer identity a disorder

Anonymous 1d

AND I CHOSE TO USE PATHOLOGICAL bc asexual is assumed to be that something is wrong with your biology and you should seek help :p if there’s a better word pls lmk

Anonymous 11h

told my roommate i was exploring the possibility of being ace and i was told to just "get a vibrator" NO.

Anonymous

#3 11h

Using a vibrator as someone who wouldn’t enjoy or get anything from it would genuinely be such an unpleasant experience. I am a very sexual person but on the occasions where I’m not really feeling it that kind of sensation absolutely sucks

Anonymous

#3 11h

The heteronormative idea of sex is so forced onto us it’s disgusting I’m sorry you got told that ughhhh

Anonymous

#1 11h

AVEN i feel does a great job at educating the surface level of asexuality, pretttttyyyyy sure i sent my friend that link idk if she really read it through..

Anonymous

#2 11h

My friends queer too ): sighhhhh I shouldn’t assume everyone’s educated on every aspect of our community but idkkkkk