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When are the guys on grindr gonna figure out that maybe treating sex as a foregone conclusion is the issue. “Why does nobody respond to me?” Because your answer to “how are you” was “show me that ass”
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Anonymous 2w

Highkey grindr is mainly hookups, not relationships. I’d try other apps if you’re looking for relationships 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 2w

i usually dont want to have sex with people who cant hold a conversation

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Anonymous 2w

Hi-key is fixing things in that reality. Focus on normalizing the conversation so you know what you’re getting yourselves into.

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Anonymous 2w

on the lowkey though that’s what grinder’s known for. most folks who go on there ARE looking for hookups, not relationships. try some different apps?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I’m there looking for hookups too dawg. Do you understand how big of a turn off it is to be talked at like a sex object by a stranger with no preamble? Basic human respect will get you laid because the bar is in super hell.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Doesn’t mean they can’t show decorum and decency.

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