Anonymous #1 4w

Don’t even try asking her to clarify she’s just like recreationally saying words

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Anonymous #2 4w

help how did i get here😭😭

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Anonymous #1 4w

Some people just want casual sex. It doesn't make sense to invalidate someone's sexuality or be biphobic because a bi woman isn't engaging with women very often when the reason is that a lot of women don't want casual sex. Like I could either be with men and not lie about my intentions or I could be with women, whose intentions are often not the same as mine, and lie to get what I want. I'm not "using women for sex" just bc I don't wanna date the same way I'm not using men who I don't wanna date

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Anonymous #1 4w

I don't wanna date anyone, I just wanna have sex. Men are generally okay with that, women are generally not

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Anonymous OP 4w

well then do that ig like no one is forcing you into a relationship but how tf has that anything to do with anyone being biphobic?😭😭

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Anonymous #1 4w

It is biphobic to insinuate that bi women only use women for their bodies and only take men seriously when that's not actually what's happening

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Anonymous OP 4w

i don't know what you mean there babes

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Anonymous #2 4w

Go read it again and tell me if that's what the post says or if you just made that up

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Anonymous #1 4w

Ask a better question then, idk what you're confused on

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Anonymous OP 4w

Why yall downvoting her now? I called out people that say these things in a post a few weeks ago and got downvoted can we pick a side

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Anonymous #5 4w

With each other maybe. God forbid a bisexual what to be casual with a woman though, there's entire think pieces every day on that

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Anonymous #2 4w

That doesn't say I'm disgusted having sex with men nor does it say I've never had sex with a man sober.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Sorry if this is unsolicited advice, but based on reading your other comments I think the problem sounds like communication- if you and your hook up (guy or gal or nb) are on the same page about what you’re doing, then no one is “using” anyone - but you said that sometimes with women you “lie to get what you want,” and then they say they feel used afterwards. There are absolutely lesbians (like myself) who like to hookup with women - but it is unfair to lead someone on if they don’t want casual

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Anonymous #5 3w

I literally never said that I lie to women to get what I want, I have never done that. The point is that I don't do that and I opt for men because I don't feel the need to do that, I can be direct and there no offense taken. I also explicitly stated that I know I'm not using anyone, the biphobia part is what you claim it's using women to only want casual but that same sentiment doesn't apply for men when it's still only wanting casual. I think the problem for you is you misread and misunderstood

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