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LGBTQIA+ 10w
Okay so weird thing I’ve experienced is that as an AFAB non-binary, I hated presenting feminine until I started T??? Like I don’t feel like femininity is forced upon me because of my birth gender anymore and that I feel more free to choose now.
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Anonymous 10w

The difference between “chosen” and “enforced” is the difference between an atom and a galaxy

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Anonymous 10w

I had a therapist a couple years back who only started wearing dresses after getting top surgery, they’re also afab nonbinary :)

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Anonymous 10w

Ive been saying for years that i would way prefer looking “effeminate” than “feminine”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

That’s beautiful 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It is beautiful 😭 being more androgynous has freed up my ways of presenting in ways I never thought were possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Yay! I have a consult for top surgery in a few months, I’m so excited

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I would much rather be able to choose femininity in a male coded way/while being perceived as a man than being perceived as a cis woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

You get it

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