Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
This applies to any gay transphobes reading this. Yes, this is targeted at you. Do better and help the community
1645 upvotes, 84 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "This applies to any gay transphobes reading this. Yes, this is targeted at you. Do better and help the community"
upvote 1645 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Real shit. This community is divided as fuck and for what reason

upvote 166 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

& it’s so pick me too

upvote 43 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Yikes some of these comments…

upvote 17 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

*cough* AJ Sanchez *cough*

upvote 16 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

OP, I didn’t mean that I was saying that’s the stupid stuff these ppl say. I agree with you. Also I wasn’t the fastest sperm, interestingly enough the egg kind of gets to choose who fertilizes it.

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

I like actually don’t understand as a cisgender gay man why there are gay men who are transphobic. Like non-queer ppl don’t like us either for being gay and have called us “not real men”, “less than men”, “women of the men”. They think we’re weaker than straight men, less capable, disgusting, sinful, basically a walking failure. So how tf do some of us not see that happening towards trans women or even not think they’re deserving of respectability???

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Ugh I used to kinda be one of these people and I’m so disappointed in myself for that but I am much better now and love trans people 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

It’s not anyone’s responsibility to reply and defend against bigotry. If someone wishes to blatantly ignorant or a bigot, that’s on them. Use your voice to continue speaking for the voiceless and the ones who are under attack. That’s all one can do

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

I misread and thought it said every gay trans person is a traitor and was sooo confused for a sec

upvote 1 downvote
🏪
Anonymous 5w

Y’all are literally delusional lol

upvote -14 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Bc some cis gay people have a “fuck you I got mine” mentality towards trans people and blissfully ignore the suffering we face. They don’t actually care about human rights, they care about their rights

upvote 96 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

rainbow nazis aren’t any less guilty. Fuck em all to hell

upvote 63 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

all you little edgy white gays that think you’re special should go google what happened to Ernst Rohm. When you’re not useful anymore they will kill you. And you will have no one to care.

upvote 38 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

and i don’t want nazi sympathizers near me, at pride, in my friend groups, in my life, near my community, i want them gone.

upvote 61 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

imagine growing up and becoming Anita Bryant 2.0 “but it’s ok because i’m gay” go fuck yourself

upvote 35 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

then don’t? no one is forcing you to twin 💀 y’all just go outta your way to be ignorant when you could just be quiet and that’s the problem.

upvote 47 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Supporting trans people ≠ obligatory sex with them

upvote 69 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Its not about who you wanna date. Its about supporting people in being themselves. We all are going through discrimination for wanting to be ourselves. So why are you not supporting people who are fighting for the same thing as you?!

upvote 52 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

…..nobody is forcing you to do that? Christ people like you are so insufferable. You’re not some victim, quit acting like it. Advocating for the rights and humanity of trans people has nothing to do with if you want to date them. Grow up

upvote 46 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

and i don’t want to date you either man, but i deserve rights even tho i’m not fuckable to you

upvote 37 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

who, exactly?

upvote 20 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #22 5w

Trans people

upvote -14 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

Trans man here. Some of these comments really aren’t the shit you think it is. I’m actually disgusted

upvote 20 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #20 5w

Lol so am I

upvote -9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

trans people have existed for as long as civilization has… you know that, right?

upvote 21 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #22 5w

And?? Delusional now delusional then. Literally a mental illness. Someone being born one gender and genuinely believing they were they were born in the wrong body doesn’t sound insane to you lol?

upvote -11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

nah, most of us read books and understand the subjective nature of expression. whether you like it or not we’re here and we’re cooler than you. you’d still be in the closet if it weren’t for trans women of color sticking their necks out for you unconditionally.

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

And you’re delusional if you think that you’d be able to freely celebrate your pride as a dick sucker if it weren’t for trans women.

upvote 10 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #23 5w

No I definitely wouldn’t be. I’m a biological woman and what the trans women strive to look and act like. I’m having a hard time understanding why a trans woman would feel the need to stick up for me. Im not the one that’s confused. Also you could never be “cooler” than me/us when once again I’m exactly what you wanna be.

upvote -6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

i’m having a hard time understanding why you feel the need to be so disrespectful on this app that’s actually not that anonymous

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

Maybe because trans women care about your rights as well as their own. I don’t know how to explain to you that you should care about other people

upvote 19 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

you don’t need to explain shit to that dumbass. she’s too lazy to care

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

I don’t think anyone here wants to be a hateful bigot terf, so you’re wrong on that I fear.

upvote 6 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I wouldn’t call it disrespectful.

upvote 1 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #23 5w

Oh I’m far from lazy. Just because I have a different opinion doesn’t make me dumb either.

upvote -5 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I care about other people but that doesn’t change the fact that trans people are quite literally mentally ill. That’s not meant to be rude it’s the truth.

upvote -4 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Lol. If not feeding into delusions makes me a bigot then I’ll be that.

upvote -5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

Being trans isn’t a mental illness, you’re just uneducated Gender dysphoria is a mental condition, but it’s a mental condition that can affect cis people too. It’s not some trans exclusive thing. There’s been documented cases on cis people experiencing gender dysphoria too. And even if I were to agree with you that trans people are delusional (which they’re not) that still doesn’t prove mental illness because delusional beliefs aren’t necessarily a mental illness

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

Also if you actually cared about trans people then you’d be an advocate for what has objectively been proven to help trans people most, which is transitioning. You don’t get to talk the talk if you’re not walking the walk

upvote 11 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Omfg why do y’all think that you have paved a way for biological women😂 there is absolutely nothing that y’all have done for biological women because there’s nothing you can do. Your a cosplayer like be fr.

upvote -4 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Lord have mercy🤦‍♀️

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

There we go, proof you don’t actually care about trans people. I provide you information about exactly what has been scientifically proven to help trans people and your response is to hand wave it away You don’t care about helping trans people. You want to say you’re a good person without doing the right thing

upvote 14 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I actually never said any of that and I didn’t wave it away either. It’s just wrong which is why I replied the way I did.

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

The issue isn’t gender dysmorphia, because that’s not the same thing as gender dysphoria. And the best treatment for gender dysphoria in trans people is transitioning And I think everyone should be helping trans people get the needed care they deserve because I think everyone should help people who need help where possible

post
upvote 11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

Then explain why it is wrong instead of bouncing around the topic

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

how many times do psychologists have to say being trans is a real thing for yall idiots to get it through your thick ass skulls?

upvote 13 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

omg I just read about that the other day—perfect way to convey your point!

upvote 1 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You know what I can admit when I’m wrong but still although being trans may not be a “mental illness” whats wrong is the stuff about delusions. A delusion is a symptom of a mental disorder by definition, so saying delusional beliefs aren’t tied to mental illness is indeed wrong.

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

I said they’re not NECESSARILY a sign of mental illness. If someone is really self absorbed, that might be delusional thinking, but it’s not necessarily a sign that they have a mental illness. We don’t diagnose off of one symptom usually But even then this assumes that trans people are delusional for, well, transitioning between genders. Which is not the case. You are tying gender to biology when it’s not. Gender is often associated with sex, but that does not mean they are one in the same

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

your limited understanding of gender as a whole is what has gotten you into this. i’m begging you to read a book, but it’s clear you haven’t picked one up since grade school since you don’t even know the difference between “your” and “you’re.”

upvote 6 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #22 5w

Ugh I haven’t gotten myself into anything I really don’t care about any of this lol. Nothing about this conversation has changed the way I felt about trans people. I still think it’s insane to genuinely believe that you have been born in the wrong body and instead of getting the help you definitely need you start cosplaying.

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

do you believe in god by any chance?

upvote 4 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

I do

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

so you believe in a being whose existence has never been proven outside of words in a book but it’s impossible for someone to be trans?

upvote 3 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

Oh I never said I was a Christian or associated with any other religion lol. I do believe in gods and higher entities though. I never denied the fact that people could be trans. I very much do acknowledge trans people as trans but that doesn’t change the fact that I think trans people are delusional.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

delusional for what exactly? bc gender is a social construct. it’s something imposed on you as a baby not something you’re born with. judging by your remarks about trans women being “cosplayers” and that they’ll never be “cooler” than you, you’re not secure in your femininity. how about get some therapy to fix your insecurities instead of shitting on a group of individuals who’ve done nothing to you?

upvote 3 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

I believe gender ROLES are a social construct but that’s about it. And in my defense a person said that trans women were cooler than biological women first and I just responded to that. You can’t be cooler than me if I’m your inspiration and I’m exactly what you strive to be lol. Im very secure in my femininity I don’t think about any of you until YOU start talking about being better than us. Do you know how many trans women are always trying to compete or compare themselves to biological women?

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

trans women don’t aspire to be other women, they aspire to be comfortable in their own bodies. sure they may look up to other women as role models but the goal is to be comfortable in one’s skin. have you ever considered that trans women are MADE to feel as if they have to compete & compare to cis women bc they’re constantly being told they’ll never be one?

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

and numerous anthropologists have said multiple times that gender is a social construct. when nothing but your skeleton remains, people will guess if you were boy/girl based on what you were buried with.

upvote 5 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

You can actually tell if the person was male or female by the pelvis but sure I’ll let you have that lol.

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

not if your skeleton has started to erode. gender does not scientifically exist. either way you’ve shown your ignorance many times.

upvote 4 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

And when/if you guys have surgery it will be to replicate the female body and softer features right? Not to mention the hormones. And correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t the bottom surgery called GENDER reassignment surgery? Also just because they are people men or biological women telling you that you will never be a women doesn’t mean that your justified in claiming that you are better than biological women.

upvote -1 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

Lol gender definitely does scientifically exist. Throwing out false information that can be proven wrong with a quick google search shows that you are just willfully ignorant because you refuse to acknowledge the truth. You will say/believe anything to make yourself feel better. Delusional.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

i never said that was justified lmfao? it’s called gender reassignment surgery bc you’re genitals are being changed to match the gender you identify as. using sex wouldn’t make sense bc that refers to chromosomes and that’s not what’s being changed. not the “gotcha” you thought that was and google could’ve explained that to you.

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

a quick google search will also tell you that gender isn’t always consistent with an individuals assigned sex at birth …. which is where trans people come into the mix.

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

oh & you should know that i’m a cis woman.

upvote 2 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

Oh really? You could’ve fooled me.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

until you can differentiate sex from gender you have no business talking about trans people or insulting them.

upvote 6 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

Oh I know the difference. And I can admit I was taught it going back and forth in these comments but that was yesterday. Even if genitals don’t determine the sex your hormones and chromosomes do but just focusing on the hormones don’t trans people take hormones to feel more like/look like the opposite sex? They also have no business commenting on biological men and women either. I also wasn’t insulting anyone I spoke the truth because everyone else is worried about hurting feelings and I’m not.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

hrt is taken for a number of reasons but they take it to look more like how they identify whether that’s masculine or feminine. nonbinary people may take hrt too. you keep saying trans people being delusional is the truth but it’s not. they’ve existed since the beginning of time.

upvote 4 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

Oh you are this btw lol. I’m actually learning a lot in this conversation I appreciate it. I’m still go fact check but for the most part I’ve enjoyed this conversation.

upvote 0 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #18 5w

And your saying they have existed since the beginning of time does not change the fact that delusion is delusion. Saying how long they’ve been around doesn’t change anything it’s still the same thing then and now damn.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

how are we delusional. i am well aware i have xx chromosomes and that won’t change. i don’t care. gender isn’t some sacred thing that needs to protected, it’s something humans made up to put people in categories. other animals have different sexes, not genders. and if you are so hellbent on it being delusion, why do you care so much? even if it is delusional, it hurts absolutely no one

upvote 3 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #17 5w

I actually don’t care as I’ve stated before. I don’t care what anybody identifies as. Be who or whatever you’ve convinced yourself are. But anyone who genuinely believes they were born in the wrong body is delusional to me.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

because you’re ignorant and refuse to educate yourself. sounds like a personal problem 🤷🏽‍♂️

upvote 8 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

And your delusional. But it’s not a problem at all actually. Having a different opinion doesn’t make me ignorant lol. And I have educated myself on the topic which is how I came to that conclusion. Not all of y’all are annoying though I actually like some of you.

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

i’m not taking any insults personally from a mf who don’t know the difference between your and you’re. if you were educated on the topic you wouldn’t be here with this stance lmfao 💀 and y’all are far too comfortable conflating being IGNORANT with “having a different opinion”. instead of being a dickhead online, why don’t you address your deep seeded insecurities. idgaf who you like 😂

upvote 8 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Ugh I can’t think of not one insecurity some of you trans people swear I have. It’s really not that deep. I’m not about to pretend that a man can be a woman or a women can be a man. We have established that you think I’m ignorant and I think all of you are delusional and need help. Just gonna have to agree to disagree and move tf on lol.

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Why are we still entertaining that user? 🙃

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

it’s “not that deep” yet you’re here so clearly it is that deep to you 😂 goofy ahhh. no matter how many times you deny that you’re insecure, and no matter how many times you call me and everyone else delusional, it doesn’t change the fact that you are wrong. factually, and scientifically. if you were truly content w life, you wouldn’t be here doing this bullshit and that’s the bottom line 🤷🏽‍♂️ i hope you find peace so you can stop being so miserable to strangers online

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #20 5w

great question actually

upvote 3 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

I’m only responding because you keep responding to me and I find this funny. Idk what I would have to be insecure about talking to trans people but sure. There are plenty of points that were made by you guys that can’t be backed up scientifically. And I never claimed to be content with life I said I wasn’t insecure which I’m not lol. The only person that’s miserable is you because you feel then need to defend yourself against someone you’ll never know.

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> 678910 5w

You are ignorant and uneducated. Please go fix that. Sincerely, a cisgender man who actually cares about people who are different than himself

upvote 10 downvote
🏪
Anonymous replying to -> #27 5w

🥱

upvote -1 downvote