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“Bi people just need to make their own community” home slice this is their community….. they don’t live in the same house as you but they are right down the street like what are you not getting
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Anonymous 7w

ah hell nah…i’m lucky enough that nobody’s said ts around me but i fucking wish someone would -sincerely, a bi person

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Anonymous 7w

And people get mad when I say bisexuals get the most hate out of any group in this community (as a whole not on the app) because we genuinely get it from everyone.

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Anonymous 7w

I hate this so bad:( i’m bi and I genuinely mourn the fact that i’ll never been in with the lesbians or allowed in a lesbian friend group or experience lesbian culture. I feel like there’s so much I don’t know about being queer as a bi woman because the Internet and personal experience (very little) can only teach me so much💔💔 I want to be allowed and welcomed into those spaces

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Anonymous 7w

There was a post yesterday where a bi person pointed out that straight women and lesbians both refusing to date bisexuals because they’re bi give the exact same reasoning but lesbians are getting much more lenience and they got completely dogged on in the comments as if they didn’t understand that SOME les4les people couldn’t possibly be biphobic, it’s fucking ridiculous

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Anonymous 7w

I wish people would just leave them alone 😒 it’s even worse hearing it from someone apart of your own community.

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Anonymous 7w

It would be nice if there were more bi-specific community events/groups/etc tho

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Anonymous 7w

“Bi people need to make their own community” “trans people need to make their own community” “asexuals need to make their own community” how about you make your own community?

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Anonymous 7w

Right down the street? They’re right next door. They’re in a connected town house

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Anonymous 7w

I date the same women lesbians do, I don’t understand the exclusion

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Anonymous 7w

They can leave the community and join LGB without the T and the B stands for Bigot.

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Anonymous 6w

everyone acts like they hate the straight presenting bi guys but they sure seem to like having sex with us, is that my entire value to the community?

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Anonymous 7w

Nobody is saying bi people need to make their own community

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Bisexuals and trans people get the most hate

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

i don’t think bi people get the most hate from people outside of the queer community but def are the topic of most discourse within the community

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Same and what sucks most for me is that I only call myself bi because I am open to experiencing something with a guy but would never want to spend my life with one and rarely feel attraction towards them. So it’s like, where tf do I fit in when I don’t feel comfortable calling myself lesbian but my life experiences mainly fit that label 😭🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

You are welcome in lesbian spaces!! As a lesbian, i think its important to remember our differences and embrace them but its also sooo important to remember our similarities. I also believe that a bisexual community distinct from lesbian and gay communities is so important because i feel like bisexuals should have their own space (this is not in any way attempting to advocating for separatism or anything). Yall are not half gay or half lesbian or half straight. You are BISEXUAL 🩷💜💙

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Anonymous replying to -> sapphic_gambler 7w

I feel like a bisexual bar would genuinely go hard asf

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Anonymous replying to -> sapphic_gambler 7w

ur so cool 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i wish people left bisexuals alone :/ over the last few years i’ve stopped labeling my identity bc of the intracommunity discourse around bisexuals, asexuals, and genderqueer people. i used to be very proud to be bi and ace, but lately i just call myself queer to save myself the headache.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

sorry didn’t mean to reply to you directly lollllllll

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 7w

nah it’s okayy, i always read comment notifs anyway 🙏🏽 i wish the same and i’m sad to hear that 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Youre cooler bestie 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

People are literally saying that in the comments of this exact post

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Anonymous 7w

So that’s just biphobia tho…

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Anonymous 7w

Why tho? Like why are you so dead set on judging someone based on their sexuality?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

Well im too lazy to read that

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Im not

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

Then why wouldn’t you date a man who is bisexual?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w
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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

Help why are you responding they not talking to u😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

No, now I’m curious for their reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Because i dont like men

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Yeah he is

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

No they aren’t baby they were responding to 16….

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

I dont like men im a man and im not gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Yo mama so dumb, she built like a plum

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

Yeah bc you responded to my thing first

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

Open your eyes mama

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Okay and they asked after

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w
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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Frankly that’s irrelevant to the situation as they still responded tonme

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

This is deff just a troll w nothing better to do I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Im not a troll im a human

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7w

No you quite literally inserted yourself and said “I’m not” as if they were talking to you. Go to bed babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Past their bedtime lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7w

Its not kind to downvote my posts like that and regardless of my insertion they decided upon their own will to respond

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Actually its not past my bedtime im a grown up

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