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LGBTQIA+ 23h
“strapping him for pride” “making him eat his own cum for pride” YOU ARE HAVING STRAIGHT SEX 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 23h

btw I only take issue with this because it treats a guy being penetrated or eating his own cum gay when straight women do the same thing. sexual openness is great but if you’re saying you’re “proving he’s gay by strapping him” then you aren’t an ally 😭

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Anonymous 21h

oh brother i didn't realize this was a thing and i thought you were telling queer people that they were having straight sex for whatever reason 💔

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Anonymous 16h

does it impact you in your bedroom or is it just them in theirs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

obligatory disclaimer: no I don’t think that only straight women do this or that they’re the main perpetrators, this is simply a specific example of cishets perpetuating toxic masculinity & artificially separating men & women during sex (e.g. a straight man can’t be penetrated or he’s gay).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

oh no I’m talking about cishet women lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

it's demasculinizing and homophobic rhetoric and an odd line to set where even being straight is gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

why does something have to be in my bedroom for me to find it goofy? maybe I should check if my bedroom turned into a circus lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

But like is it harming u or u just uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

is this post harming you or are you just uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Oh no I’m arguing with an idiot nvm I’m out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I’m an idiot because you can’t say what you mean? because the conversation didn’t go your way? lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Because you’re the one with an issue of what people do in their bedrooms. Not me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

btw it neither harms me nor makes me uncomfortable. I’m pointing out the dissonance between their perception of queerness and the reality of queerness, in part for humor. does that harm you or make you uncomfortable?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I made a post dude it’s not that serious. you have more of an issue with me than I do with them lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I just think it’s crazy when our community goes on and polices what others do I feel it to be hypocritical

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

do you genuinely think it’s policing to say it’s not gay for a straight woman to strap a straight man? I’m crying you’re so goofy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

When they make a public statement claiming having sex w their boyfriends somehow relates to pride it is no longer a matter of what they do in their bedroom. Nobody said don’t peg your boyfriend, they said it doesn’t allow you to claim that you’re queer or participating in pride.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

several hours ago OP had already gone out of their way to specify what exactly they meant and why it bothered them. really bizarre to waste their time expecting them to repeat all of this

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