Anonymous OP 9w

obligatory disclaimer: no I don’t think that only straight women do this or that they’re the main perpetrators, this is simply a specific example of cishets perpetuating toxic masculinity & artificially separating men & women during sex (e.g. a straight man can’t be penetrated or he’s gay).

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Anonymous #1 9w

oh no I’m talking about cishet women lol

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Anonymous #2 9w

it's demasculinizing and homophobic rhetoric and an odd line to set where even being straight is gay

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Anonymous #2 9w

why does something have to be in my bedroom for me to find it goofy? maybe I should check if my bedroom turned into a circus lol

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Anonymous #2 9w

But like is it harming u or u just uncomfortable

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Anonymous #2 9w

is this post harming you or are you just uncomfortable

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Anonymous OP 9w

Oh no I’m arguing with an idiot nvm I’m out

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Anonymous #2 9w

I’m an idiot because you can’t say what you mean? because the conversation didn’t go your way? lmao

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Anonymous OP 9w

Because you’re the one with an issue of what people do in their bedrooms. Not me

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Anonymous #2 9w

btw it neither harms me nor makes me uncomfortable. I’m pointing out the dissonance between their perception of queerness and the reality of queerness, in part for humor. does that harm you or make you uncomfortable?

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Anonymous #2 9w

I made a post dude it’s not that serious. you have more of an issue with me than I do with them lmao

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Anonymous OP 9w

I just think it’s crazy when our community goes on and polices what others do I feel it to be hypocritical

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Anonymous #2 9w

do you genuinely think it’s policing to say it’s not gay for a straight woman to strap a straight man? I’m crying you’re so goofy 😭

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Anonymous #2 9w

When they make a public statement claiming having sex w their boyfriends somehow relates to pride it is no longer a matter of what they do in their bedroom. Nobody said don’t peg your boyfriend, they said it doesn’t allow you to claim that you’re queer or participating in pride.

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Anonymous #2 9w

several hours ago OP had already gone out of their way to specify what exactly they meant and why it bothered them. really bizarre to waste their time expecting them to repeat all of this

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Anonymous #6 8w

if they're just open to breaking gender roles and stereotypes, then yeah. if it's "i'm gonna make you gay. you're gay now"... it's odd

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Anonymous #1 8w

True

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Anonymous #6 8w

right thing wrong reason

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Anonymous #2 8w

I think you might have misread or misunderstood the post…

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Anonymous #8 8w

Who’s we? OP is obviously referring to straight women making the claim, not you personally bruh. Also being bi is why you participate in pride, not cause you peg your bf…so their point stands.

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