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LGBTQIA+ 5w
"Gold star lesbian" bro my parents didn't even let me date boys in high school lol I got to college, kissed 1 man freshman fall and went "hmm that was gross" and proceeded to become the most passed around lesbian on campus lol you're not gayer than me
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Anonymous 5w

I dont think that term necessarily “counts” kissing but you’re right, I don’t feel any different than other lesbians with different dating/sexual history than me, there shouldn’t be any sort of hierarchy within our community, especially over something as shallow as who you got with to get here, you should be proud of your journey and finding who you are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It'd be the same story if we had sex lol I could still walk away like "hmm well that was gross" and never turn back, I was just freshly 18 and never done anything with anyone before

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

But yeah agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah exactly it really doesn’t matter

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