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guys i can completely understand being wary of cis people. that is more than reasonable. but saying you hate all cis people feels kinda crazy to me
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Anonymous 20h

And it inadvertently alienates stealth trans ppl ive seen it happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

EXACTLY.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

genuine question, how? if you're a stealth trans person wouldn't you just think "that's not about me"?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Well im not stealth but my friends who are and folks ive spoken to ab this say that their appearing cis sort of by looks alone alienates them from being allies w that type or trans person that dismisses every cis-looking person and that theyre met more harshly by them and have to come out and face that risk in order to connect

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

it’s different when you’re encountering this online vs in person. yes it would be easy to just scroll or block someone when online, but you can’t exactly do that when encountering these people irl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

that makes perfect sense, thank you

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