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I don’t understand he/him lesbians either but also somebody else’s gender, sex, sexuality, and pronouns are simply Not My Business. It’s not hurting me, so I let them be. They’re valid and I support them even if I don’t get it.
I really hate to say it but i cant stand the concept he/him lesbians. Not only is it incredibly contradictory to the meaning of wlw spaces but it’s also incredibly invalidating. There is nothing wrong with saying you’re straight dude—
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Anonymous 4h

Atp people are just using “he/him lesbians” as a strawman to invalidate the “weird” part of the lgbt community, meanwhile there are barely any actual he/him lesbians. Idgaf what your pronouns or sexuality is, the less time we spend fighting each other is more time to tackle things that actually matter

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