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Question for the cis girls (as a trans girl): what are some thing that you ladies do not like to be called?
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Anonymous 1d

Don’t be afraid to share, please let me know how I can be more respectful:)

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Anonymous 1d

Fish. It just feels very misogynistic and I feel self conscious of my vagina’s smell. I know the term has ballroom roots and I think the roots are misogynistic since it was basically saying you pass so well I can smell your vagina (I know fish is usually used for trans women but the times it has been used for me have made me deeply uncomfortable)

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Anonymous 1d

We do not like to be called being the same as trans girls. We are not and it permits unfair treatment in athletics

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I totally understand that.. I’m not in sports. I think that women come in different shapes, sizes, colors and bodies, and while trans women fit under that umbrella, we can’t ignore biology. I cannot get a period, I have XY chromosomes, and if cis women athletes are respectfully expressing why trans women shouldn’t compete in sports with them, I respect that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

(But I do competitive dance tho and I’m on an all girls team :P )

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

wah wah wah get a job

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

I completely agree… and I think that term is incredibly disrespectful to cis women and people with vaginas. If I expect cis women to not shame/fetishize my genitals, then I should absolutely not do the same to them. While on the topic, I strongly dislike the term “platinum gay”- because it’s disrespecting the person and the organ that gave you life, and literally birthed you. That’s incredibly misogynistic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Please don’t say that. I want to make this post a safe space for cis women to express their boundaries. I’m really tired of seeing trans women and women fight each other, when we should be supporting each other. I hate how we keep accusing each other of misogyny and transphobia but nobody talks about the real enemy (MEN) who have set that system up. If I want women to accept me in their space, I need to listen to their boundaries.

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