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Is it a red flag if a gay guy I met on Grinder keeps asking if we can get a hotel one night so we can cuddle and whatnot even though I just met him a few days ago, and he expects me to split the bill.
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Anonymous 3w

It depends? Is that something you want to do with him or has he been pushing your boundaries?

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah, avoid this. This is a huge safety risk

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Anonymous 3w

he does not want to just cuddle jsyk

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Anonymous 3w

girl this sounds sketch asf please be careful…there are truly plenty of fish in the sea ESPECIALLY on grindr so please don’t just get hung up on one boy giving you attention, you’re worth so much more than that 🫶🫶🫶🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

If it’s someone I knew for awhile sure but the fact I just met him makes me uneasy because I don’t know if he’s a good or bad person or what he might be capable of. This is the second day in a row he mentioned it

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